Wednesday, September 10, 2014

May 23 Bad Friends


May 23 

The Elevator Riddle

Pr 13:20  He that walketh with wise men shall be wise:
but a companion of fools shall be destroyed.

The view from his 30th floor apartment was wonderful. The elevator would quickly take him down every morning so he could walk a couple blocks to his office building. But when he came home the elevator would only take him to the 20th floor. Then he had to take the stairs for the last ten floors. Why?

 This old riddle is so well known you have already guessed the answer. But I included it because it fits so well with our devotional thought for today, which is to be careful who our friends are.

A wonderful book entitled “God’s Little instruction Book” by Honor Publications contains Bible verses that have been reworded in thoughtful and often humorous ways. The proverb that we are considering today is reworded the following way.

“Your companions are like the buttons on an elevator. They will either take you up or down.”

That should also be a great clue to the riddle if you haven’t already figured it out. The guy walked up the stair for the last ten stories because he was too short to reach the number thirty and could only reach as high as #20 on the elevator buttons. I know….Groan!!

An excellent bad example of having wrong friends is Lot. He went to live in a wicked city. He married a woman from Sodom. His daughters married men from Sodom. The last we hear of him he is homeless, living in a cave with two daughters who had adopted the morals of Sodom and as a result were guilty of incest with their drunken father.

The proverbs are wonderful examples of wisdom we should learn as we mature and grow wiser. However age has little to do with wisdom. There are old fools just as there are young ones. The lesson for us today is simple to understand, but often ignored, especially by the immature, of whatever age.

I once heard an interesting expression that said we are only changed by the people we meet and the books we read. If there is any truth to that we should choose both books and friends carefully.

          In the end of the 14th chapter in Genesis we see an example of not making friends with bad people. There we read of several kings joining in battle. The result was that Sodom was sacked. The winners took everything of value from Sodom, including the people, which included Lot. When Abraham got word that his nephew had been taken, he armed his servants and rescued Lot and all the people and their possessions. The king of Sodom showed up and thanked Abraham. That old pervert king told Abraham to keep the stuff just return the people.  Abraham wanted nothing to do with the king of Sodom and told him he would not take a thread or a shoelace. He had just wanted to rescue his nephew Lot.

      The book of Proverbs lists some people that we should not be friends with.
Pr 22:24  Make no friendship with an angry man;
and with a furious man thou shalt not go:

Shouldn’t we make friends with people who need Christ so we can help them with their anger issues? No! Would you go to those who have an infectious disease so your health could make them well? No, because you would eventually catch their illness. So it is with an angry man. Which is more natural for us, to become angry or to be meek and forgiving? Verse 25 explains why we should not be friends with an angry man.

Pr 22:25 Lest thou learn his ways,
and get a snare to thy soul.

     We are also told to stay away from foolish people.

Pr 14:7 Go from the presence of a foolish man,
when thou perceivest not in him the lips of knowledge.

Foolish people say foolish things, desire foolish goals, make foolish decisions, and have foolish friends. Don’t be one of them!

  A black soldier I was stationed with said it best. “Now there is three kinds of people in this world. There is the man who knows and knows he knows. That man is wise and you should honor him. Then there is the man who do not know and he knows he do not know. That man is unlearned and you should pity him. Then there is the man who do not know but he thinks he knows. That man is a fool and you should flee from him.” 

The thought in our devotional is obvious and needs little explanation. But it is a good reminder. What kind of people do we spend our time with? If they are complainers, whiners, angry, dishonest, given to bad language, smutty conversation, and strong drink do not expect your wholesome life will transform them.  Rather you will be conformed to their way of thinking, speaking and acting. Now you may not become as bad as they are but you will not stay as godly as you once were. They will not catch your Godliness. You will catch their ungodliness.

Our meditation for today is to consider the kind of people we choose to associate with. What draws us to be friends with them? And while we reflect on that we should keep a verse from Romans in our mind as well.

Ro 12:2 And be not conformed to this world:
but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind,
that ye may prove what is that good,
and acceptable, and perfect, will of God.

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